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1月19日

know it is possible

 
Knowing that something is possible is a significant step toward achieving it. As soon as you know, without a doubt, that you can achieve it, in many ways you immediately begin to benefit from it.
 
Of course achievement requires more than just knowing you can do it. You must actually take the steps which will make it happen. However, those efforts come much more readily when you know that they will surely lead where you desire to go.
 
Look at all the things others have achieved. Consider everything you have already accomplished. Know that what you desire is possible. Convince yourself of it. See yourself living it in every detail. Fully and sincerely expect it, and you're well on the way to having it.
 

Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
 
1月12日

be thankful

 
 
Be thankful for this day, and you will fill it with joy. Be appreciative of those around you, and they will bring much value to your life. Be grateful for your opportunities, and you'll find yourself making the most of them.
 
 
Be thankful for what you have, and you'll get more from it. Be grateful for the challenges, and they will help you become stronger. Appreciate the dark, cloudy days and they'll instantly become brighter. Appreciate the sunny days, and you'll enjoy them even more.
 
 
Those things you take for granted will fade from usefulness as you forget they're even there. By contrast, those things for which you're thankful remain readily available and will grow even stronger as a result of your appreciative attention.
 
 
Consider how very fortunate you are. Consider it often. The more you count your blessings, the more there will be to count.
 
 
 
Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
 
 
 
 
12月29日

enjoy it


Here's a suggestion that will make today a great day. Find a way to look forward to and enjoy everything that you must do today. That's easy to say, but is it really possible? Of course.
 
First, there are things you will genuinely enjoy doing. You should have no problem looking forward to them. That leaves all the other things -- those tasks which may be unpleasant or uncomfortable or otherwise undesirable. The good news is that you can look forward to them with even more anticipation, because rather than looking forward to doing them you can genuinely look forward to having them done and behind you.
 
For everything you must do today, you can either look forward to doing it or look forward to getting it done. Whatever the case, the ultimate outcome is enjoyable, no matter what the task may be. And when you enjoy what you're doing, you naturally become more effective at it.
 
Look forward to everything, enjoy doing it or having it done, and you'll make it a great day.
 

Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
 
12月19日

filled with life

 
 
 
You are constantly in the process of becoming. You are constantly in the process of growing, no matter what your age or what you've already been through. At the end of this day you will not be quite the same person you were when you woke up. You will have learned new things, lived through new experiences, known some new accomplishments and some disappointments.
 
Today is your opportunity to mold yourself and to direct your life. The person you are tomorrow will depend on how you live each moment of today. It's a serious responsibility and a great opportunity.
 
The moments of this day may seem quite ordinary as you go through them. Yet every day is important, every moment is special and vital. They are your opportunities to live, to love, to grow, to learn, to accomplish, to become, to fulfill.
 
Rather than just looking at this day as another one to endure, see in it the wondrous amount of living with which it can be filled. Give today your best, and its golden treasures will be yours.
 

Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
11月24日

build confidence

 
The way to find confidence is to look for challenge. Rock solid confidence and lasting self esteem cannot be handed to you, no matter how well intentioned your benefactor may be. Confidence and self esteem come from the direct experience of meeting challenges.
 
Confidence is well worth the trouble. With confidence in yourself, anything is possible. But confidence cannot be created out of nothing. Try to do that and you'll only get arrogance, a poor substitute which crumbles at the first tough challenge.
 
Confidence must be built. Just as strong muscles are built by lifting heavier and heavier weights, confidence is built by taking on bigger and bigger challenges.
 
Don't shy away from challenge. Welcome it. Seek it out. It will teach you. It will discipline you. It will give you valuable experience. And it will build in you something which can help take you wherever you wish to go - confidence.
 

Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
 
 
11月20日

the four seasons at the same location


Lessons on Life


There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly, so he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.


The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.  When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.  He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy,and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.  If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Moral: Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.  Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later.

 
10月25日

look ahead

 
 
 
A major source of discouragement is the mistaken assumption that the future equals the past. It is difficult indeed to keep going when previous experience has produced so much disappointment. But the fact is that life does not have to follow a straight line. At any point, it is possible to change direction.
 
 
Great accomplishments often come on the heels of bitter disappointments. Rather than assuming that you're doomed by your past, consider all the ways you can create a bright future.
 
 
Each day, each moment is a new opportunity, independent of what has gone before. Learn what you can by looking back, but spend the bulk of your time and attention looking forward.
 
 
The past may be full of despair, but you don't have to live there anymore. Your new home is being built in the future, and you can make it as wonderful as you wish.
 
 

Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
 
 
 
10月21日

find treasure today

 

 

Find something today for which you can be sincerely grateful and show your appreciation. Find someone today whom you can encourage and lift them up. Find a task today that needs to be done and then take it upon yourself to do it.

Find something you can learn today and add it to your knowledge. Find something you can enjoy, and take pure delight in it. Find a few moments of quiet peace and just let yourself be.

Find a challenge and let it energize you. Find something new and creative to wonder at and admire. Find something timeless and venerable to respect.

There is treasure in every moment, around every corner. Look for it. Find it. Live it. Be it. Fill today with special treasures, every chance you get.


Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
 
 
10月2日

give life

 

 

         Make it happen.

 

 

 

You have wonderful things inside you.

  • Music
  • Poetry
  • Art
  • Culinary Masterpieces
  • And much more…

 

You have creativity and energies, spirit, ideas
and are capable of great things.

 

 

 

 

 

Inspiration and aspirations, we all have them.

 

Who knows? You may have something within you that might change someone’s life.

 

 

 

Shine your light

Give yourself a chance to see
if you are more talented than you give yourself credit for.

 

 

We all have talents

 

All of us have the potential

to accomplish wonderful things

 

 

 

Try.

 

Do something you’ve always wanted to…

 

   Maybe it’s something small, but magnificent


        Perhaps it’s something humble, but perfect

 

 

                     Keep an open mind

 

 

explore the talents inside of yourself

discover the wondrous possibilities that sleep within you  

 

 

Give life to your inspirations.

Bring the world some of the good things within you.

 

 

 

: )

 

 

9月23日

d e p t h

 
 
 
 
 
The depth of a soul
is not measured by what appears on the surface,
but what lies in the heart.
 
 
 
 
 
 
8月31日

something to admire

 
 
 
Whatever you find in others, becomes a part of you. When you criticize and find fault in someone, it only serves to bring you down. How could you possibly profit from embracing and expanding the negative?
 
When you admire someone, you share in their accomplishment. The things you admire in others will grow strong within yourself. The respect you give to others will bring more respect to you. The love in your life will grow to the extent that you give it away.
 
Your thoughts determine the quality of your life, so why would you want to focus them on the shortcomings of others? Instead, look for ways to admire and respect the very best in the people around you. That will bring out the best in you.
 
 
 
Ralph S. Marston, Jr.
 
 
8月18日

within us

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Within each of us
we have the power to be happy
we have the power to be strong

 

 



you have within you
possibilities
successes
achievement

 

 



we all deserve
respect
happiness
love

 

 

 

 

 

We can do great and wonderful things


Small things and great things all around us hold the potential of joy


Each moment is an opportunity to connect with joyful forces
that are always within your grasp

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6月29日

it's been a day

 
 
it's been raining alot here (and there's more to come)
 
 
 
 
 
 

well...

 today I came home to find a few inches of water in my basement

 

 

 

 
I spent a couple of hours trying to rescue a few things as the water rose
 
 
 
 
my friend Joanne phoned and, next thing you know, she shows up at my door with a pump she'd  bought, and a bottle of wine
 
 
 
 
now that's a friend  
 
 
 
 : )
 
 
 
 
 
 
6月11日

most beautiful things in the world

 

 

 

Today I share with you a single thought.

 

 

 

 

 

I hope you stop for a second, and truly embrace it.

 

 

 

 

 

"The best and most beautiful things in the world
cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart."
  Helen Keller

 

 

 

Happy Saturday       : )

 

 

 

5月28日

Saturday gems

 

 

 

Some quotes I thought I'd share with you...

 

   "Anger and intolerance are the twin enemies of correct understanding."
- Mahatma Gandhi

 


   "Integrity is what we do, what we say, and what we say we do."
- Don Galer

 


   "We must not, in trying to think about how we can make a big difference, ignore the daily differences we can make which, over time, add up to big differences that we often cannot forsee."
- Marian Wright Edelman

 

   "No one is as deaf as the man who will not listen."
- Jewish Proverb

 


   "In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us."  - Flora Edwards

 


   "Now is the operative word. Everything you put in your way is just a method of putting off the hour when you could actually be doing your dream. You don't need endless time and perfect conditions. Do it now. Do it today. Do it for twenty minutes and watch your heart start beating."
- Barbara Sher

 


   "The past cannot be changed. The future is yet within your power."
- Mary Pickford

 

 

 

Good things are worth sharing...

 

Have a wonderful ,beautiful day !

 

: )

 

 

 

 

5月15日

happy Sunday : )

 

Today I share with you some quotes from Oprah

I have come upon them thanks to my friend Karen

 

 

“Happiness is never something you get from other people. The happiness you feel is in direct proportion to the love you give.”

 

 

“Our beliefs can move us forward in life - or they can hold us back.”

 

 

“It’s up to each of us to get very still and say, ‘This is who I am.’ No one else defines your life. Only you do.”

 

 

“It’s not easy being grateful all the time. But it’s when you feel least thankful that you are most in need of what gratitude can give you.”

 

 

“Failure is just a way for our lives to show us we’re moving in the wrong direction, that we should try something different.”

 

 

“If you make a choice that doesn’t please your mate, friends, or whoever, the world will not fall apart.”

 

“Your life is a journey of learning to love yourself first and then extending that love to others in every encounter.”

 

 

“If you don’t know what your passion is, realize that one reason for your existence on earth is to find it.”

 

 

“The truth is that which feels right and good and loving. Love doesn’t hurt. It feels really good.”

 

 

“Every day brings a chance for you to draw in a breath, kick off your shoes, and dance.”

 

 

 

“If you feel incomplete, you alone must fill yourself with love in all your empty, shattered spaces.”

 

 

“Listen. Pay attention. Treasure every moment.”

 

 

 

 

 

Have a wonderful Sunday    : )